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We sensed a compulsion to avoid rocking the boat, and so we decided to push these hesitant daters overboard. What you see may not necessarily be what you get.
And their partners responded, creating much livelier conversations than we had seen when daters came up with their own questions. Think about what you can do to make sure that your discussions are not the boring but not risky type. Be prepared to treat this like a second job if you want to get anything out of it. Everyone, both sender and replier, was happier with the interaction.
Maybe set the rules of discussion upfront and get your partner to agree that tonight you will only ask questions and talk about things you are truly interested in. Because no one does that anymore. They were forced to risk it by posing questions that are considered outside of generally accepted bounds. The questions we chose had nothing to do with the weather and how many brothers and sisters they have, and instead all the questions were interesting and personally revealing ie. We could not talk or talk forever and still find things to not talk about.
Or maybe we can create a list of topics that are not allowed. Instead of talking about the World Cup or their favorite desserts, they shared their innermost fears or told the story of losing their virginity.
You are essentially competing with the entire world.
By forcing people to step out of their comfort zone, risk tipping the relationship equilibria, we might ultimately gain more. If I was going to meet someone, I wanted it to be organic.
But there are great people out there who you may be writing off based on looks alone. Our daters had to choose questions from the list to ask another dater, and could not ask anything else.
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